Today has been a day. I know that teens are full of emotions but Dj has just been full of them lately. I really think something is going on with him but he just wont talk to me about it. I want to help even if its just listening to him but I can't get him to tell me whats going on. He and his best friend have been getting into little tiffs here and there for awhile but they just blew up at eachother the other day and in the process Dj just let go at church and said some very inappropriate words. He understands that it was wrong but he wont say whats going on or what he is feeling. Uhhhhh he is so frustrating me. Why can't teens just express what they are feeling so we as Parents can help them through it. Sorry for the rant but I needed to get it out. I love my kids no matter what.
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Monday, January 14, 2013
Saturday, January 12, 2013
Wednesday Hodge Podge
Wednesday Hodge Podge
While I would normally do this on a Wednesday but since I just started posting again I thought I would start today and pick up again next Wednesday like normal.1. What is ONE thing or area in your home or life you hope to report is completely organized when 2013 draws to a close? Do you have a plan to make it happen?
I would have to say that the one place in my home I hope to have completely organized by the end of 2013 will be my craft room. While it is already pretty organized it could certainly use more. I would like to get it done by putting up shelves and getting all my stuff on a computer to keep track of what I have and how much.
2. What's the worst uniform you've ever had to wear for a job?
I have not had many jobs and most of the ones I did have were before I had a husband and family. I would have to say I didn't have one that I didn't really like. Most of them were pretty comfy.
3. What was your last kitchen 'mishap'? This question comes to you courtesy of Betty who blogs over at A Glimpse Into Midlife...everyone go say hi to Betty!
I honestly cant say that I recall the last time I had a mishap in the kitchen. Im usually pretty good about making sure I don't break anything or burn or mess up a recipe.
4. How do you protect yourself from other people's negativity?
I don't think you can really protect yourself truly because we are all human and have feelings. I just try to remember that that is their opinion and to take it with a grain of salt.
5. Who in your family do you most resemble (physically)? If you have children, who do people say they favor? Do you agree?
People say Im an equal split of both my parents. As for my children. My son looks a lot like me and my daughter is a good cross between my husband and myself. I would have to agree with it all.
6. January 8th is National Bubble Bath Day...will you be celebrating?
Well if I had known Im sure I would have but as I didn't know then No I wont be. lol
7. Some of the 'world's best winter festivals' are - Mardi Gras (New Orleans), Quebec Winter Festival (Canada), Sundance Film Festival (Park City, Utah), Rio Carnivale (Brazil), Sapporo Snow Festival (Japan), Venice Carnival (Italy) and the Harbin Ice Festival (Northern China). Of those listed (and if cost were not a factor) which would you most like to attend and why?
Well considering the fact that I am from the south and celebrated several times Mardi Gras and the fact that I have no idea about the others I would have to say any of them except Mardi Gras.
8. Insert your own random thought here
It has been so good being able to blog again. I have missed being able to write down my thoughts and have them to be able to look back on and remember how I was feeling about the day.
Friday, January 11, 2013
two in one day
I know that I have already posted today but I just needed to blog about my day again.
I was able to go out with our sister missionaries ( Sister Vandenburg and Sister Oldham) again today and meet with Allie and Larry. I have to say she is one girl who really feels the spirit of our heavenly father with full force. I am very excited to see her progress in our faith and would love to see them sealed in the temple next year. I know with all my heart that she will make it there.
We also saw another lady and her two friends but im not sure how well that one went. I know that both sister Oldham and I both felt like the place we were was not a good place. But I had faith that our heavenly father would not let anything happen to us while we are doing our lords work.
I also got to talk to Telsa today. she isn't having a great year so far and she really needed someone to talk to. I let her know she is loved by not only me and dale but also by our father in heaven. I think it really helped. I also told her that if she needed anything to just call one of us and we will be here for now no matter what she needed.
I know that I have spoken several times in this blog about Him but I really feel like He is playing a huge role in my life now a days. He has made such a change in my family and really bringing us back together and getting us back on the road home to Him. I can't imagine my life without Him in it.
I was told by the Sisters today that our Nashville, Tn mission is leading in baptisms and conversions and it is all due to member involvement. I was also told that they believe it is all due to me. I have to say that while that is an amazing thing I can only give credit where its due. I wouldn't be doing any of this if my Heavenly Father didn't tell me to be doing it. I feel like this is where I am suppose to be and this is what I am suppose to be doing right now. I can't deny my feelings and/or my Heavenly Fathers will. I didn't get to serve a full time mission (mostly because I was a young mother and getting married at the time I could have gone) as a young woman. So I feel like this is my way of being able to do that now. I love being there to watch as these people see and feel the truth of what we are telling them.
Well its time for me to get off here and spend some time with my husband. Both the kids are skating tonight and Dj is spending the night with Anthony afterwards so we will pretty much have the house to ourselves for a while. We don't get that to often.
Blog at you later.
I was able to go out with our sister missionaries ( Sister Vandenburg and Sister Oldham) again today and meet with Allie and Larry. I have to say she is one girl who really feels the spirit of our heavenly father with full force. I am very excited to see her progress in our faith and would love to see them sealed in the temple next year. I know with all my heart that she will make it there.
We also saw another lady and her two friends but im not sure how well that one went. I know that both sister Oldham and I both felt like the place we were was not a good place. But I had faith that our heavenly father would not let anything happen to us while we are doing our lords work.
I also got to talk to Telsa today. she isn't having a great year so far and she really needed someone to talk to. I let her know she is loved by not only me and dale but also by our father in heaven. I think it really helped. I also told her that if she needed anything to just call one of us and we will be here for now no matter what she needed.
I know that I have spoken several times in this blog about Him but I really feel like He is playing a huge role in my life now a days. He has made such a change in my family and really bringing us back together and getting us back on the road home to Him. I can't imagine my life without Him in it.
I was told by the Sisters today that our Nashville, Tn mission is leading in baptisms and conversions and it is all due to member involvement. I was also told that they believe it is all due to me. I have to say that while that is an amazing thing I can only give credit where its due. I wouldn't be doing any of this if my Heavenly Father didn't tell me to be doing it. I feel like this is where I am suppose to be and this is what I am suppose to be doing right now. I can't deny my feelings and/or my Heavenly Fathers will. I didn't get to serve a full time mission (mostly because I was a young mother and getting married at the time I could have gone) as a young woman. So I feel like this is my way of being able to do that now. I love being there to watch as these people see and feel the truth of what we are telling them.
Well its time for me to get off here and spend some time with my husband. Both the kids are skating tonight and Dj is spending the night with Anthony afterwards so we will pretty much have the house to ourselves for a while. We don't get that to often.
Blog at you later.
A year of catch up
Well it has been almost a year since I was last able to post on here. I really need to get back into the habit of posting again. I have had a lot of things happen in the last year. So I guess I will get started.
Let see where should I start. Well we finally moved out of the apartment and into a three bedroom house. We love how open and perfect it really is. There is no need to worry about yelling (not that there is much of that going on anymore) or jumping up and down and worrying about people living bellow us. The kids are so much happier and there isn't fighting. Well no more than normal when there are teenagers involved. Lol.
I started a Jewelry business called "Bellard Bijou Boutique" and it is really starting to take off. I love the work and I enjoy being very creative with my stuff. My clients/friends love my stuff. I love seeing them wearing my jewelry. Im working on getting my business cards so that I can get the word out even more. I do have a web site for it. It Facebook.com/bellardbijouboutique . Go check it out and like the page. I could always use more likes. Once your there Im pretty sure you will love my stuff to.
Dale is starting to get the ball rolling for school so that he can become a Phyical Therapist assistant making good money. We have our fingers crossed. Its only a two year program so he should be able to get through it pretty fast. We all know how fast time goes. Right?
The kids are getting big. Elyssa just turned twelve and is now in Young Women's at church and loving it. She is advancing in school just like we thought she would. She is involved with Beta and a couple other clubs and just learned that she is now taking Art in school as her newest class. She is very excited about that. She is really growing into quite the little woman. I have a very strong feeling that she will be going on a mission when she is 19 now that they have lowered the age from 21 for girls. Sometimes I think she is just a little adult with the things that she says and feels.
Dominic is about to be 15 in July and really excited about getting his driving permit. Me not so much. But I understand he has to grow up sometime and this is all part of it. As he is getting older he is learning to control his emotions better and we are having less blow ups as a result. He is doing well in school for the most part and just got Teen living as his newest class. Im just hoping he doesn't get that electronic baby cause with the way he sleeps he will never hear it crying. Plus I really don't want to hear it either.
They are both growing so fast. It seems like just yesterday they were both little and now they are teenagers. Where does the time go.
With everything going on Dale is finally ready to move forward in our spiritual journey and we are going to be sealed as a family. Our plan is to be sealed by this summer but as soon as we get the letter from Dominic's father giving us permission to have Dominic sealed to us then we will do it. I have been waiting a long time for this and I can't tell you just how happy I really am. Dale and I have our Temple interviews with the bishop on Sunday so that is the first step to moving this whole process forward.
Well I think that just about gets us all caught up on the year. Now that I have access to this blog again I am going to make it a priority to write everyday. Well at least four times a week. Cause lets be honest my life is busy and most days Im dropping into bed around 11:30 at night and Im out for the night. So here is to happy Blogging again.
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Let see where should I start. Well we finally moved out of the apartment and into a three bedroom house. We love how open and perfect it really is. There is no need to worry about yelling (not that there is much of that going on anymore) or jumping up and down and worrying about people living bellow us. The kids are so much happier and there isn't fighting. Well no more than normal when there are teenagers involved. Lol.
I started a Jewelry business called "Bellard Bijou Boutique" and it is really starting to take off. I love the work and I enjoy being very creative with my stuff. My clients/friends love my stuff. I love seeing them wearing my jewelry. Im working on getting my business cards so that I can get the word out even more. I do have a web site for it. It Facebook.com/bellardbijouboutique . Go check it out and like the page. I could always use more likes. Once your there Im pretty sure you will love my stuff to.
Dale is starting to get the ball rolling for school so that he can become a Phyical Therapist assistant making good money. We have our fingers crossed. Its only a two year program so he should be able to get through it pretty fast. We all know how fast time goes. Right?
The kids are getting big. Elyssa just turned twelve and is now in Young Women's at church and loving it. She is advancing in school just like we thought she would. She is involved with Beta and a couple other clubs and just learned that she is now taking Art in school as her newest class. She is very excited about that. She is really growing into quite the little woman. I have a very strong feeling that she will be going on a mission when she is 19 now that they have lowered the age from 21 for girls. Sometimes I think she is just a little adult with the things that she says and feels.
Dominic is about to be 15 in July and really excited about getting his driving permit. Me not so much. But I understand he has to grow up sometime and this is all part of it. As he is getting older he is learning to control his emotions better and we are having less blow ups as a result. He is doing well in school for the most part and just got Teen living as his newest class. Im just hoping he doesn't get that electronic baby cause with the way he sleeps he will never hear it crying. Plus I really don't want to hear it either.
They are both growing so fast. It seems like just yesterday they were both little and now they are teenagers. Where does the time go.
With everything going on Dale is finally ready to move forward in our spiritual journey and we are going to be sealed as a family. Our plan is to be sealed by this summer but as soon as we get the letter from Dominic's father giving us permission to have Dominic sealed to us then we will do it. I have been waiting a long time for this and I can't tell you just how happy I really am. Dale and I have our Temple interviews with the bishop on Sunday so that is the first step to moving this whole process forward.
Well I think that just about gets us all caught up on the year. Now that I have access to this blog again I am going to make it a priority to write everyday. Well at least four times a week. Cause lets be honest my life is busy and most days Im dropping into bed around 11:30 at night and Im out for the night. So here is to happy Blogging again.
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Friday, May 25, 2012
All caught up
ok so i have been sucking at keeping up with this blog. I have had a lot of things going on since i last posted. First off I quit my job so that i could put my family back together. My sister went back to live with my mother and it has been a great deal of stress taken off my shoulders. dont get me wrong because i love her more than she will ever know but she is a brat and was causing to much turmoil in my home. Second, my kids both passed the grades they were in and now i have a 6th grader and an 8th grader. Two middle schoolers. Dominic passed with mostly c's but at least he passed. im very pleased he brought them up from d's and f's. Elyssa passed with all a's but really who is surprised by that. she also received the presidial award for having atleast a 90% in all subjects all year and she received the character award for her class because she showed great character all year to everyone she came in contact with. Third, i have started my own jewelry business. i have a real passion for jewelry and i love to help woman look beautiful and it not cost them an arm and a leg to do so. I applied for a small business grant for woman so keep your fingers crossed that i get it. Well i guess that has you all caught up in my life. now lets hope i can keep it up.
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Saturday, March 17, 2012
time fly's
wow i cant believe that it is already almost the end of march. i have not had a chance to get on here and blog all year. at the end of last year our computer crashed completely and we have not gotten a new one. last month we finally updated our phones so now I'm able to finally blog again.
alot has happened in the three short months of this year. i have been working full time at The Youth Academy taking care of babies 6 weeks to 12 months. i love my job for the most part but there are days when i wish i could just be a stay at home mom again. i miss being around all the time for my kids. being able to help with homework and social issues. they just grow up so fast and we as parents dont get very long to be that involved in their lives. sometimes i feel like im wasting that presious time away. i know its silly but its how i feel. and i know i will always be their parent but i feel what i feel. silly or not.
dale no longer works for the police department. he finally relised that i was right and it wasn't a good match for him. he is now back at the prison and trying to climb the ranks so he can help make it a better place for the officers an the inmates. i have no doubt he has a great future there.
the kids are doing good for the most part. we have our days and moments. the girls are in a play at church called The Seven Sisters. Elyssa loves it but Chey wants to quit all the time. i keep telling her that she made a commitment and has to see it through. she doesnt like it but im sticking to what i said. she has always given up when thing are not going her way or fast enough for her but i wont let her do that now and she hates it, but i feel like im right and she needs to learn that not everything is about her.
well i have rambled on long enough for today. so im going to go now.
More to come later.
Thursday, December 22, 2011
Home made stockings
So i went to get the stocking out of the Christmas box to hang up this year and couldn't find them anywhere in the house. So I went out to price them and see what I could afford and couldn't find any decent stocking for a good price so instead I decided to take a risk and make them myself. I got a pattern and all the materials I needed them went to it. It took a couple of tires but all in all them came out great. Not bad for someone who has never used a pattern or sewn anything that didn't have a strait line stitch. Maybe now I will venture out and try something new in sewing. we shall see.
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